Sunday, February 12th, 2023 – “Roaring Twenties” Sunday
Philip’s Reflection: “Honouring Our Elders” (1 Cor. 13)
“Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.” (1 Cor. 13:4)
At St. David’s, we typically read the “Revised Common Lectionary” texts for our
Scripture readings each Sunday – the idea is that, rather than hearing your Minister’s
favourite Bible verses over and over again, we get to hear all the major parts of the Old
and New Testaments over a 3-year cycle. The recommended text for this Sunday is
from the Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 5, a long passage from the Sermon on the Mount
and it concerns anger management, and the avoidance of adultery, 1st century attitudes
to divorce, and advice against swearing in public – it’s a tough passage at the best of
times, but especially on a Sunday before Valentine’s Day and the Sunday we’ve chosen
to honour our elders! So I hope you’ll forgive me for selecting a different piece of
Scripture this week - in fact the one we just heard read so meaningfully by Melinda,
from Paul’s first letter to the early church in Corinth [we can return to anger and
adultery, divorce and swearing at a future date - if you insist!].
Today’s Corinthians’ text is one of the best-known passages in the whole of the New
Testament and we often hear it at weddings and memorial services, and we’ve heard it
so many times that it’s a bit like a familiar piece of beautiful music, it’s instantly
recognizable and its poetic, hymn-like stanzas sound familiar and reassuring, perhaps,
as it did for me this morning, triggering all sorts of memories and emotions – “If I speak
in the tongues of humans and of angels....” (13;1); “Love is patient, love is kind; love is
not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude...” (13:4); “Love never ends” (13:8); “When I
was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child” (13:11) –
and, like a crescendo, rising towards a grand finale – “And now faith, hope and love
remain, these three, and the greatest of these is love” (13:13).
And hearing this text at weddings and memorial services, and this morning two days
before Valentine’s, there’s a risk that we associate it with romantic human love, the love
that binds us together at marriage, the love we miss most painfully when a relationship
ends. But there’s nothing sentimental in the love that Paul is writing about, for the early
church in Corinth was a church in turmoil – some members were claiming to be
followers of Paul, while others claimed allegiance to other teachers; some favoured the
practice of “speaking in tongues” like a modern Pentecostal church; and others claimed
to have prophetic powers, the gift of clairvoyance; while still others practised asceticism,
fasting dangerously, or giving all their possessions away in a show of voluntary poverty.
It was a church in an unholy mess – a divided, argumentative and competitive
community; and here comes Paul – no, he writes, none of these so-called spiritual gifts,
has any meaning – speaking in tongues, prophecy, voluntary poverty or even great faith
(“faith so as to remove mountains”), all are worthless unless done in love.
And this is why I selected Paul’s 1st letter to the Corinthians for this special day in the
life of our community. For I too believe that it is the love within a Christian community
such as St. David’s that differentiates us from all other types of community – whether a
seniors’ residence, a golf and country club, a book club or even a community centre – a
non-judgmental, unconditional, intentional love between all cultures, languages, and
between all ages. And at the heart of the passage we’ve just heard is one of the fullest
descriptions of “Christian love” that can be found anywhere in Scripture (verses 4-7) and
if we read it carefully, as we did in Bible Study this week, we’ll hear that Paul is really
saying what love must do, or not do, rather than what love is - his instructions to the
Corinthian church are verbs, not adjectives – for Paul, Christian love is all about actions,
it’s not a passive feeling toward another.
Our Bible Study Group counted 15 actions – eight actions that love is not to do – not to
envy, not to boast and so on. But it’s the actions that “love” must do, says Paul, that I
want us to hear once more, and perhaps with a new meaning for our context this
morning – and as we listen to them again let us think of them, I suggest, as a kind of “to
do list” for the church, for how we are to relate to each other in this community – and
especially today at St. David’s as we honour our elders – for our love is, says Paul:
To be patient
To be kind
To rejoice in the truth
To bear all things
To believe all things
To hope all things
To endure all things
Patience, kindness, truthfulness, forbearance, belief, hope and endurance.
Those, says Paul, are the ways we see love in action. And it is those loving actions that I think you’ll agree best describe the group of 12 remarkable people who we are honouring today.
So, friends, let us above all say “thank you” to the elders of this community. Thank you
for the example you have given us of “love in action”. We honour you and we love you.
And we pray that, by the grace of God, we may follow faithfully in your footsteps. For
ever and ever.
Amen.
February 12, 2023