Sunday, August 8th, 2021 – 11th Sunday After Pentecost
Philip’s Reflection: “New Rules for the New Life” (Eph. 4:25 - 5:2)
Have you noticed how many more rules there seem to be these days? Haven’t we all had days during the past 18 months when it seems that what’s ruling our lives is – well, rules, and yet more rules! Rules about where we can go, or who we can visit, rules determining how many in the bubble and so on. This past June, I had to make an essential visit to England – and the travel rules required a covid test here, two more on the 2nd and 8th day after arriving in London, one on day 5 for possible early release from quarantine, one more before returning to Canada, and two more tests on days 2 and 8 back home – the rules required 10 days of quarantine in England and 14 more here when I got back, including 3 nights in a government approved hotel in Richmond. If my math is right, that’s 7 Covid tests and 24 days in quarantine for a 2 ½ week visit.
I’m very fortunate: I knew what the rules were; I could justify the additional costs; and knowing my way around the internet I could book almost everything online and download and upload all the various forms that the travel rules required. And although I might be whining this morning, the rules for me were more of an inconvenience than an obstacle. But they illustrate an important aspect of rules - that although they may be applied uniformly they are far from equal in their effect. By no means all of us can afford the additional costs of travel or operating a smartphone; what if we’re one of the 30% of Canadian Seniors who don’t use the internet or can’t download or upload complex documents, at least not without the help of our kids; what if I’m visually impaired, or unable to take time off work; or have no work?
The Good News is that pandemic travel rules aren’t the kind of rules that Paul is talking about in his letter to the Ephesians – in fact, the travel rules are probably best understood not as rules at all – but regulations - backed by the force of law – and like traffic regulations, or regulations concerning food packaging, or health and safety regulations at work, they are mainly intended to keep us and others safe, in some cases from ourselves, to protect vulnerable members of society and to ensure public order.
The rules that Paul writes about in his letter to the Ephesians aren’t of a regulatory nature. “Speak the truth to our neighbours [he writes]… work honestly so as to have something to share with the needy… put away all bitterness and wrath and anger… and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another” – they sound a bit like Dr. Bonnie Henry’ pandemic rules don’t they – “be kind, be calm, be safe” – and to some extent they are, because these types of rules you can’t legislate for – they’re “behavioural rules”, ways of living with each other in community, “ground-rules”, the moral rules for healthy relationships. For Paul, they’re a kind of “Code of Conduct”, rules for a people newly baptized into a life in Christ.
Now many of us instinctively push back at moral guidance, particularly when it’s given by an authority figure whose early life, like Paul’s, is far from exemplary. We’re rightly suspicious of hypocrisy and skeptical of motives – “Well, it’s all very well for him to say that!”; “Why should I pay attention to what he has to say?”, we don’t like moralizing that sounds like self-righteousness or self-justification. But when we dig a little deeper into Paul’s new rules we find they offer us some important guidance for how we’re to live today; and possibly even as we shall see, a code of conduct for a faith community here in West Vancouver -
1. Firstly, “put away falsehood”, says Paul, “let all of us speak the truth to our neighbours” (4:25) by which Paul means speaking the truth to each other in the church because, as he says, we are “members of one another”. We live today in times when “truth” seems under attack from all sides and the telling of lies, particularly from those in high public office, is condoned by many, it almost seems expected, as a weapon of political expediency, as a means of covering up efforts to manipulate or retaliate. Truth-telling – to each other – strengthens the body of Christ – it builds confidence and trust and, particularly in times such as these, it is important that we not only speak the truth but that we also listen to the truth, particularly from those we have historically wronged.
2. “Be angry” says Paul “but do not sin” (4:26). We might be surprised - because “wrath”, strong anger, has always been thought by the church as one of the seven deadly sins. Paul tells us that anger has its place; and I suspect that many of us could do with a bit more rather than less anger when we witness racial discrimination or injustice in our communities. We know of course of several situations in the New Testament that made Jesus, himself, very angry! Paul is telling us not to act sinfully in anger, anger mustn’t be the excuse for sin; and also, he says, “don’t let the sun go down on your anger” (4:26), don’t let the anger fester inside you – because we all know that if anger is internalized and unresolved, it can become obsessive and self-destructive. Instead, channel the anger into productive purposes; for a community of faith such as ours, this might mean letting go of previous divisive issues, turning our attention to the future, rather than continuing to dwell on past battles.
3. “Let no evil talk come out of your mouths” says Paul “but only what is useful for building up...” (4:29) We all know that “evil talk”, particularly when it is done indirectly, either through a fear of conflict or, worse, when it is done manipulatively, through a form of triangular communication, undermines confidence; evil talk destroys trust and weakens the body of Christ. If ever there is a time for “building up”, for “giving grace to those who hear” it is surely now, as we all emerge into the uncertain world following a global pandemic.
4. And lastly, perhaps most surprisingly, Paul calls us both individually and as a church “to be imitators of God” – the only place in the entire New Testament where such a call is made. “Imitating God?” – are you kidding? - Paul is surely making an impossible request; aren’t we doomed to failure? Friends, Paul isn’t asking us to be God – but to be a community that strives (in the words of the Oxford Dictionary) to “copy the behaviours” of God and Paul highlights two such behaviours. The first is forgiveness – Paul calls us to “forgive one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.” (4:32) – in other words, we are called to forgive others because, as we said last week, God first forgave us. And the second, and surely the greatest of all God’s gifts, one that transcends all human morality, is “to live in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us.” (5:1). It is Paul’s version of the New Commandment that Jesus gave the disciples after he washed their feet in the Upper Room “I give you a new commandment” said Jesus, “that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.”
So let’s bring this together – what do Paul’s “behavioural rules” mean for this beloved community – or for any other community of faith, West Vancouver Presbyterian, Kimberley United for example – whose “Code of Conduct” might be based on the moral precepts advocated by Paul. Today’s text from Ephesians suggests first of all that we will be a community that is devoted to truth-telling – we will tell it like it is, as we interpret the truth in Scripture, and as we bear witness to the truth in our community. We will tell the truth, to each other and to power, and we will also become better listeners of the truth. Secondly, Paul tell us that anger is justified when we are confronted by injustice, racism or other forms of discrimination. But we need to find ways of harnessing, channelling righteous anger into productive outcomes, while letting go of the anger that lingers from previously divisive issues. Thirdly, we will practice authentic communication, in ways that bring grace to the other and build up the community as a whole. Above all, Paul’s new rules call us to be a community that gives expression to God’s actions in Jesus Christ – in forgiving as we have been forgiven, and in loving each other, and all in our community, as Jesus first loved us.
It’s a compelling vision for a community emerging into new life after 18 months in a global pandemic. In fact, who would not want to belong to such a community? Amen.