DECEMBER 6, 2020 "Alone in the Wilderness" Rev. Dal McCrindle
It will soon be Christmas, little less than 3 weeks; and how different it’s going to be. O, there’s still gifts to buy, food to prepare for those inside your personal bubble, presents to dream about and unfortunately so many people will still be travelling. If we can believe that Christmas will be like anything American Thanksgiving has been, there’ll be thousands, no, millions of people on the move.
For the first time Helen and I will not be having any family come over for Christmas. In the past, even when we lived far apart, there was always at least one family member who came from afar to spend Christmas with us. Just like for Thanksgiving, the Airlines will probably be forced to put on extra flights, the airports will be jammed; hopefully this year, those people will all be wearing masks and social distancing! In some parts of the country, there’ll be the usual cancelation of flights because of poor weather, rescheduling and rebooking. People will sit in waiting rooms much longer than anticipated, worried about the extended closeness to strangers while waiting for Aunt Sally and Uncle Ray who should have been here hours ago. “But no point heading home, they should be here any time now.”
I can remember sitting at airports waiting for the family guests that were expected. Closely listening to every announcement over the speakers that you can never really make out! “Was that about the flight going to Winnipeg or the arrival to Winnipeg from somewhere else?” So, you strain and look carefully at every face that comes through the terminal. You pace back and forth, getting a little more edgy; this year even more so. “When will they arrive, so we can get out of here?” So, intent on finding your traveler, you’ve missed them. You went one way and they went the other. It’s easy to get lost and missed in any crowd. This year has added the extra anxiety of being too close to those who don’t know. And then you find them. You feel kind of stupid. They’ve been here for an hour looking for you, while you’ve been looking for them.
Some believe that the Jesus event, or salvation is like that. We’re looking, looking all the time. It’s just a matter of waiting for the right time for Jesus to come into our life. But what happens when Jesus shows up early? or has decided to take the bus instead of the plane? Sometimes, we miss the very important things because we are looking in the other direction, the wrong place, a different time. (pause) Waiting for Christmas is something like that too!
Every year about this time excitement for the advent or coming of Christmas usually sneaks up on us. This year, maybe because of the darkness of the times, Christmas lights have gone up earlier. I’ve never had my Christmas tree up before December, nor have the house and yard lights gone up so soon. My neighbourhood is full of Christmas signs; it’s not just me! There’s the look and sounds of Christmas everywhere – our expectations for the day and the season swells up like unwatched milk boils on the stove; and if we’re not watching, it’ll splatter all over the place!
Awaiting Christmas is something like that. Our days are full of expectations. We wonder what it will be like this year without the family gathering. We long for human touch, for the laughter around the table, the catching upon on stories of the happenings of each. Maybe things will work out, over zoom, facetime, conference calls? We so look forward to those connections even if we can’t be in person.
On the more significant side of Christmas, we anticipate the celebration of renewal; a time to ponder how life moves onward in spite of the various tragedies and sad events of the past; the losses we’ve experienced. “Surely life will get better; I know it; I await for it!”
This year, I’m hoping that Christmas will bring all the things, the deep spiritual things I’ve always longed for, not just the glossy wrapping paper; this year there’ll be true transformation which will result in less pain, less loneliness, less division, less suffering, less confinement – why? Because God sends Jesus into the world again and again. It will get better. I know it will! I hope it will!
I’ve heard people say that they can’t stand Advent with all the waiting, watching and dreary hymns. So, this year we’re adding Christmas carols earlier but just so we don’t forget its Advent, I’ve included a few of them as well, because I think we love the waiting, the building excitement. Unfortunately, too often we set ourselves up so much that we are bound to be disappointed. It’s like the kids who set their hearts on getting the latest electronic gadget, most desired thing; but nothing will fill that emptiness when we find out they’re already sold out; “no more ’till after Christmas!”
It’s no wonder that when the wrapping paper has been gathered up and thrown into the recycling bin and the now-opened presents have been neatly stacked under the tree and the smell of turkey has begun to fill the house with that “only time Christmas smell,” we already feel a little let down. No sooner has Queen Elizabeth’s message been watched and the radio stations returned to the top 40 that the brief sounds of Christmas Carols, been quickly swept away. So soon, it’s over; what guests we did have, or watch on our computer, tablet or cell phone and it’s all over for another year. What a let-down! “Joy to the world!” (sarcastically)
Mark tells a different story; a story about waiting for that first Christmas. There are no lights, no presents, no hint of a baby Jesus, the shepherds, no wise men, no Christmas carols nor angels, just John; nowhere near Bethlehem. He’s far away running around in the wilderness, standing on the banks of the Jordan, shouting at the people to get ready for the coming of God!
“Are you ready?” he shouts. “Don’t waste time on celebrations, get ready for repentance, because God is coming! Jump into the river with me. Remember how our people crossed this river from the wilderness when they didn’t know whom they were or who was saving them. They came out of this river into a promised land, as people of God, transformed and delivered! Remember this and repent, be baptized as though it were happening to you right now.”
Like missing an important visitor in a crowd, sometimes we miss the important things because we are looking in the other direction. I don’t want to be the Scrooge this Christmas but I do want us to be realistic in what we’re waiting for.
The Hebrews spent 40 years in the wilderness and they believed that God brought them out of that wilderness to their promised land. So symbolically John calls the people from their spiritual wilderness to remember they’ve already been delivered. Now it was the time to get ready; to be alert cause God was going to do something rather significant that was going to change them for good. They are going to come out of this event different. They’re going to be blessed, gifted with God’s very presence.
If we think we can make right all the wrong in our lives by putting up another string of lights or buying just one more present we are sadly mistaken. O, I’m the first one to want presents and lights and food but that’s not really what we’re waiting for, is it?
Even the people who came to Jesus at the Bethlehem manger went home changed. Why? Because they were seeking God and surprise! God found them. They were open to looking for God, looking here and there and just when they least expected it, God jumped up and hit them with a baby!
What are we looking for? Are we open to being struck by God, for if our celebrations are not about this then we have been swept along and away by the commercialism and we will miss Christ and now will be left disappointed once again? But if we are truly seeking Christ, looking for God in these days, we just might see and not be disappointed ever again. Watch therefore and pray.
What are we wanting, waiting and hoping for? Money, things, presents, the end to a pandemic, unobtainable dreams or do we seek the Christ Child? For if we are, let us focus on the gift that God alone can give and be transformed from our former ways of doing things and being. For this God comes, gives and delivers. At least that’s the way I see it!