Sunday, February 20th, 2022 – Epiphany 7
Philip’s Reflection: “Impossible Love” (Luke 6: 27-37)
“May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable to you,
O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.” Amen
In the United Church of Canada, we view Scripture as “the living word [that is] passed
on from generation to generation to guide and inspire” and, in the words of A Song of
Faith, the United Church’s latest faith statement, “[so] that we might wrestle a holy
revelation for our time and place.” And our reading from the Gospel of Luke this morning
certainly does require us to “wrestle” with the text and it’s surely one of the most
extraordinary that’s ever been written! “Love your enemies” says Jesus “do good to
those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.”
“Love your enemies” – how does that sound to a resident of Kyiv in Ukraine, with over
100,000 of “enemy” troops massed on your national borders threatening invasion and
unimaginable suffering and loss of life? “Do good to those that hate you” – and how
does that sound to anyone experiencing racism or homophobia. And to those who block
bridges and roads and wave the Confederate Flag or blare their horns as they pass by
hospitals, or verbally abuse health care workers? “Do good to them… or bless them”?
Are you kidding?
And if you’ve experienced abuse or been “struck on the cheek” isn’t “praying for those
who abuse you” or “offering the other cheek” just the last thing on your mind?
And it is an extraordinary teaching because we have become so immersed, for most of
our lives, in a culture in which force is met by force; acts of aggression are met with
retaliation or revenge; and violence is met by punishment and recrimination, “payback”,
“getting even” – behaviour that often leads to an unending or escalating cycle of further
violence – that it’s become almost “human nature” to respond to violence in kind – and
certainly not in kindness. And this is just as true today as it was in the time of Jesus,
where Jesus was preaching to the poor, the persecuted and abused of 1st century
Palestine, where retribution was the cultural response when someone wronged or
injured you. You can read in Exodus or Leviticus (24: 19-21) references, if you recall,
“breach for breach, eye for eye, tooth for tooth” – what former President Trump
described as his favourite Bible verse – but these instructions weren’t meant to
legitimize retaliation but were intended as a restriction, to place a limit on retaliation for
personal injury – in other words only an eye for an eye.
Either way, Jesus repudiates any notion of retaliation – in Matthew 5:38, we hear him
say, for example “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a
tooth.’ But I say to you, do not resist an evildoer.” Jesus turns conventional thinking on
its head – challenging the culture of retribution, proposing in effect a new standard, a
non-violent approach to any form of hostility or wrong-doing – a behavior that is totally
opposite from revenge.
Well, you might say, we get it – we have become only too familiar with non-violent forms
of protest and resistance. We may not always agree with them, or with the aims of the
protestors, but we don’t question their motives (unless they happen to drive a large rig)
and many of the great figures in world history owe their greatness to their commitment
to non-violent, pacifist, action in the face of extreme provocation or hostility. [We think of
Mahatma Gandhi, or His Holiness the Dalai Lama, or Martin Luther King for example.]
But today’s Gospel reading goes even further, doesn’t it? Not only, says Jesus, must
you restrain yourselves in the face of violence or wrong-doing but you are to love your
enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you. You’re to seek the
good of the other – take positive steps to promote the well-being of those with whom the
community is in conflict. Because reconciliation benefits the welfare of all the parties,
builds up the whole community. If you love someone who loves you, what credit is that,
says Jesus – “But love your enemies [says Jesus] do good, and lend, expecting nothing
in return” (6:32).
If anyone here today can live up to that standard, congratulations – because, says
Jesus, “Your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High.” I know of
only one person who can claim that gold medal, whose life embodies that standard, and
who even in his last moments before a brutal and painful death, when hanging from a
cross, calls out to God “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.”
(Luke 23:34). And it is this same Jesus who calls us, not to act out of our own selfinterest,
but the interest of the other; who calls us to place forgiveness at the centre of
our lives; who tells us that doing harm to others, even proportionately, in retaliation for
their harm to us, is sinful; because “[God] is kind, even to the ungrateful and wicked [so]
be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (Lk 6:36).
But Jesus comes to teach, not to scold, and his teaching calls us to go beyond a
reciprocal approach to the other, who we might love or serve in the expectation of
something in return, even if it makes us feel good. He calls us, by his own example, to
love unconditionally, to give sacrificially, and to forgive without judgment. We have the
freedom, he says, to act differently, to break the cycle of revenge or the spiral that leads
to the escalation of violence. We know this, because we have all experienced situations
in which we have been wronged, or have wronged others, and whether unforgiven, or
unforgiving, we can become imprisoned by the lack of forgiveness. We know that being
wronged, which is often real and acute, can cause bitterness and self-blame that in turn
can lead to obsessive or addictive behaviours that can quickly become self-destructive.
I don’t pretend this easy work – loving our enemies or even, when we have been
wronged, forgiving the other. It isn’t, I know. We all have a tendency to be judgmental,
to love those who love us, to give and expect to receive, even for personal affirmation.
But two things have helped me as I try to interpret and act on this difficult teaching in my
own life. One is to remind myself, each day, of the blessings that I have already
received, so abundantly – and I therefore give because I have already been given so
much; I am learning to forgive those who have wronged me because I have already
been forgiven. And because I remember that I am blessed and loved by God, I try to
share this love with others, because, as Jesus tells us, “From everyone to whom much
has been given, much will be required.” (Luke 12:48)
What we’ve also learned, what has become more obvious to us as we grow older, is
that if we are to aspire to the new standards that Jesus teaches the disciples in the
passage we heard today, we cannot do it on our own. For this teaching is all about our
relationship with others, all others, friend or foe, loved or unloved. Try as we can, it
sometimes seems so difficult, particularly when the enemy threatens, particularly when
the sinfulness of the others seems so, well, unforgivable. And in such situations, we
learn to surrender to God – to know that it may not be in our power to love or forgive
without God’s help and support. How can we? It just doesn’t seem possible! And we
remember that when the disciples asked Jesus “Then who can be saved?”, Jesus looks
at them and says, “For mortals it is impossible, but for God all things are possible.” (Mt
19:26).
And so today we pray for God’s strength and support as we try to live up to the
challenge that Jesus gives us – “Do not judge, and you will not be judged; do not
condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it
will be given to you.” It may seem impossible and perhaps it is without God’s grace –
but for God, all things are possible – and so we sing “O God, hear my prayer!”.