June 14, 2020 - Laughter Defeats Despair
Dear God, so far today I have been alright. I have not gossiped. I have not lost my temper. I have not been grouchy, grumpy, nasty, proud, selfish or over-indulgent. I am thankful to all that. But in a few minutes, God, I am going to get out of bed and from then on, I'm probably going to need more help.
When a mother reprimanded her two sons because they were having a fight with water pistols, they assured her, "Don't worry mom. We won't get water on anything. We're using ink!"
A little girl, shown pictures of her mother and father on their wedding day asked her father, "Daddy is that the day you got mother to come to work for you?"
Laughter is good for the soul especially during times of trouble or despair. Today's Hebrew Scripture today is on Motherhood, giving birth, having a baby and the happiness that brings; that's not to say that fathers don’t share that happiness when babies are born. But before pursuing that issue, let's go back to our laughter.
I grew up in a church where the preacher was always very serious. Laughter was something that belonged elsewhere, certainly not in church. Ministers wore black gowns, many choirs were in black, and the Bible was in black. Church and God were very serious issues; nothing to laugh about or even feel good about. I wonder if that's why laughter is so seldom mentioned in the Bible because religion is serious business?
The Genesis reading is a story of the geriatric laughter of Sarah and Abraham when they were told they were going to have a baby. In the Christian Scriptures, laughter is only mentioned four times. Twice, once in Mark and another in Luke when Jesus told the crowd that a dead child was only sleeping and “they laughed AT him;” and twice more in Luke when Jesus says: "blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh; and woe to you who are laughing for you will mourn and weep!" Laughter is something that we've too little of in our faith. And tied to this prohibition of joyful expression in church has been the restriction of expressions of appreciation as well. In many congregations, there's a sense of discomfort when people express their agreement or appreciation for something well done and applaud.
Even in churches like ours, when applause is not unheard of, there is a slight hesitation, should we, should we not. How to balance between expressing our appreciation or shouting out an "amen!" to God and breaking the mood that a particular offering or action has created. We've come to know that worship is serious business and we need to maintain a certain decorum.
But it seems to me that the central message of Christianity, is one of joy, when weeping is transformed into laughter and death is overcome with life. Like Jesus and the messengers, we know the laughter of cynicism; that was Sarah's laughter .... in the beginning. Ninety years old, bent over, without a dental plan she'd probably lost all her teeth by then and God promised her, in the language and images of Hebrew thought: the equivalent of immortality: a child. Her life and the life of Abraham would continue beyond their death. I'm sure that soon-to-be father, Abraham let out his toothless cackle and gasped when he heard God's promise to he and Sarah.
"Sarah, did I hear you laugh?"
"Me? Why should I laugh? A ninety year-old-woman, a childless woman just told that she was about to have a baby? Why should I laugh?"
"Don't lie to me! said the LORD; "You laughed!"
Before either Abraham or Sarah justified their cynicism, God announces, "Is anything too wonderful for the Lord?"
(pause) Following her time of waiting, a child was born and they called the child, Isaac (Yits-chawk) — the word for laughter in Hebrew.
But this time, her laugh was no longer the laughter of a cold, cynical disbelief but the laughter of wonderment and great joy; the end of her despair. God was not playing with Sarah and Abraham, nor mocking them. God did what was promised which brought laughter to them. Blessed are you, who weep now, you shall laugh because nothing is too wonderful for God.
Can't you see them at the Tuesday Morning Bridge Club? They usually sip tea and talk about gall bladder surgery! Now there's Sarah with a bassinet! Now, everyone has a great time laughing WITH, not AT Sarah and with God’s ability to work wonders. Now Sarah said, "God has brought laughter to me; everyone who hears, will laugh with me."
This is one of the strongest stories of hope and encouragement in all the Scriptures. It is the closest that the Hebrew scriptures get to speak about resurrection. God brings life out of death; new hope emerges when all seems lost. It is the transformation envisioned as Jesus sends out the twelve disciples to share the good news of the Gospel throughout Galilee. Jesus sends his friends to bring laughter where there is sadness. "Go," he says "to the Lost of the house of Israel, and as you go proclaim the good news, the kingdom of heaven is near. Cure the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, cast out demons." Trust in God, not yourselves, "take no gold nor silver nor copper, no bag nor extra clothes. You will be taken care of. Do not worry what you will say. Even if persecuted, there are troubles ahead, but those who endure shall be saved.
Once again the word of the Gospel is appropriate for our time. Let us not look ahead with cynical laughter but with faithful laughter ... for our God is a laughing God, transforming sadness into joy, death into life, fear into faith. And if, by chance we ever get disillusioned and times are tough, like now, let us think of Sarah, think of Abraham and laugh with them. For they thought that the end was at hand, nothing seemed to lay ahead for them in the future, only death. And then God intervened. Those who thought the Prince of Peace had been destroyed stood by an empty tomb and laughed Sarah's laugh, for they knew that God had intervened and brought life out of death.
There's the story of the businessman who wanted to perform some kind of service in the community. At his minister's suggestion he stood outside a rescue mission on Skid Row inviting the down-and-outers inside. Stopping one unfortunate, the businessman in a most doleful tone invited him in. The down-and-outer took one look at his mournful face and answered, "No thanks. I have enough troubles of my own!"
These days, when we are constantly being challenged to bring to an end, something we have known and open up something unfamiliar we are called to reaffirm our Sarah faith; to trust that God transforms and still brings life, recreating what is. When faced with a pandemic that threatens our very existence or the civil unrest and violence stemming from a reaction against systemic discrimination and hatred we must remember Sarah’s and Abraham’s story of hope. For in any place of anxiety, despair or fear, God brings the laughter of faith and defeats despair. At least that’s the way I see it! Amen