Sunday, May 15th, 2022 – Easter 6
Dal's Reflection: “Think on Me"
The minister, invited by the Couple’s Club to give a devotional talk on Daniel, knew he’d have trouble remembering the names of Daniel’s three friends — remember? the friends who were thrown into the fiery furnace: Shadrach, Meschach and Abednego. So he decided to write them on the inside of his suit jacket.
Sure enough — as it came time in his devotional to name Daniel’s three friends, his mind went blank. Looking inside his jacket, he blurted out Mister, Big & Tall! (pause)
A major handicap of aging seems to be the loss of the ability to remember details: especially people’s names and in my case where I have left my cell phone! It’s a good thing that I can call up my phone on my watch and then follow the binging to locate it.
Have you noticed these days after all the Covid restrictions that remembering the names of people you used to see on a regular basis have vanished from your mind. You meet someone on the sea-wall you haven’t seen for quite some time. You say hello but their name just doesn’t come to mind! Like, I know that as we age, our ability to remember details fades just a bit but this is serious. I remember back 21 years ago following heart surgery being under general anaesthetic for almost a whole day had its side effects. That seemed like a good explanation for memory loss, but I know one of the badges of aging that I have to get used to wearing is some memory loss – but this post covid memory is annoying!
Memory is sort of like seeing. When I was younger I could read road signs so far off in the distance when my sister, somewhat sight impaired or as we call it now challenged, couldn’t even see the road sign. Then slowly, well actually it wasn’t that slowly, one day I realized that my television was losing its clarity – drat machines! What had once been a beautifully sharp picture had deteriorated into a fuzzy blur especially around people’s faces. Well quick solution to that – get a new TV! About the same time, I also discovered that the letters on the street signs weren’t being painted as large as they used to. So I got into the habit of carrying a small set of binoculars in the consul of my truck and when needing to find directions, I would whip out my trusting binoculars and take a quick peek, and voilà the street’s name was the size it should have been and could be read. Another time while out for a walk I noticed that the mountains in the distance were as fuzzy as the picture on my soon to be replaced television. It was a eureka moment. The weather was clear – no clouds or haze in sight. The mountains should be clearer than they appeared. I wondered if I just might need glasses. So I reluctantly made an appointment, was tested and although my eyesight would still be desired by many sight challenged individuals, I received my first set of glasses. Everything had deteriorated, just a little, close, middle and far. So equipped with a new set of progressives, I headed out into the world to discover that the mountains were still as sharp as they had always been. And those signs! Well, I didn’t need to use my binoculars unless I was looking much farther down the road than was necessary. The amusing thing was that when I got home and sat down in front of the television, lo and behold, the fuzzy reception had been cured. Drat!
It is comforting to be able to put down this aging thing to something specific and definable – like the aftermath of surgery. Too much anesthetic for too long; brain cells dying off due to chemical toxicity rather than simply growing older. I might wish! Aging does have its challenges. I guess the older you become, there’s just too many years of details to remember. Memory overload, happens to my computer all the time. Why shouldn’t it happen to our brains. That must be it!
Life would be much easier if we could only remember what we need to remember, like people’s names, the location of our glasses, an appointment for lunch, coffee with a friend or the doctor or worse yet, our teeth. If we could only remember the important stuff and let all the useless stuff seep out like so much unwanted ground water. Training and enhancing one’s memory is difficult for all human beings whether young or old. It’s just more challenging the older we get. The information is there, hidden away somewhere in the brain’s filing system. It’s just a matter of recollecting it.
In the story we heard today, Jesus is enjoying a dinner with his friends. He’s preparing them for his departure and he tells them that he is most likely going to be arrested and killed. Their Passover Meal suddenly becomes a sad pre-memorial. He tells them that he will be going away but they ought not to worry because the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, God’s Spirit would bring to their remembrance all that he had said to them. All they had to do was to remember him, they would be comforted and encouraged to carry on.
Now he doesn’t say to them, “when you’re really having trouble and you find your life has turned into a mess, I want you to sit down and remember everything I have taught you – ‘cause if you remember all the details of my words, you’ll be fine. It’s just a matter of remembering sermon #37B when you’re faced with a desire of pocketing a few coins out of the church offering plates and you’ll be okay.” No, he doesn’t say that. He doesn’t say, “if you get up in the morning and recite the words of the Sermon on the Mount, just to keep them fresh in your mind, then you won’t forget them. If you do that you will have all my teaching right there at your fingertips. ” He doesn’t say, “Oh, John I want you to get to work and set down the story of my life. You can even call it the Gospel of John. That way everyone will have my words, just like I spoke them to you guys. And if you forget anything, people will be able to turn to our book and there, all they will ever need. It’ll be just like I’m still with you.”
He doesn’t say, Peter “I’m going to appoint you, as teacher number One; John you can be number Two. The rest of you will need to follow them, ‘cause they’ll be in charge after I’m gone. Anytime you have a tough question go to these guys.” No, Jesus doesn’t say any of these things.
It is true, we have these things. We do have the stories of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. We even have the letters of Paul and Peter, James, and Timothy, but that’s another story! Jesus tells them that he’s leaving but he would not leave them to their own devices. God was going to send a comforter, a companion, in Greek called a paraklete. This presence, Jesus says, is his presence, God’s very presence that would be with them, who would remind them of all he tried to teach them while he was with them.
That’s not to say that the other kind of mental training for remembrance is a bad thing or unnecessary, only that it is not what Jesus promised them, us. Jesus promised us God’s presence so that we would remember. A lot of education is not putting into our heads something we have not known, but of reminding us of what we already and always have known. “Ah yes, I remember!”
So when do these moments of being nudged by God’s spirit come? When is the paraklete at work?
Well, perhaps it is when we are reading or listing to the reading of scripture; perhaps a passage that we’ve read so many times we can quote if for memory. And then, something from the text jumps out, shakes us and grabs us as never before. We say to our self, Self, I’ve read or heard this a thousand times and never before have I seen it that way.” But maybe what we really mean is “now I remember, as if seeing if for the first time.” That’s God’s Spirit walking beside us!
Or if we go through a very difficult time, when our entire world seems to be falling down around us. Ever had a day like that? Oh I know you have. Everything that can go wrong has. There’s not much more that could devastate our life. We might even get to the point of doubting that God cares or ever existed. Surely God doesn’t care for me. There have been days, let me tell you!
Then here in worship, in the music, a scripture, a song, a sermon, a touch, a glance, just the smell of the place, a squeal of a young child, we say, “yes, I know that God loves me. Maybe a startling sunset, behind the hills, the clouds; maybe the presence of a feather, a clap of thunder, the flash of lighting, the touch of a hand – the hair on the back of our neck standing at attention and we know that God is not far from us. I can go on! That’s the Holy Spirit, God’s Spirit ‘cause you could have said, while my troubles are terrible, I almost forgot that I am a child of God, precious to God; held by God. “Thank God that Jesus sent the Holy Spirit, his presence to walk along side of me, … you”
Each time we have communion, we say “do this in remembrance of me!” So much of our worship has to do with remembering not so much what Jesus said and did, but remembering Jesus!
The criminal hanging beside Jesus on that fateful day, called to him and said, Jesus remember me when you come into your kingdom. Remember me, remember me. Jesus says all we need to do is to remember him and we will know that it’s Holy Spirit time. Then we can recall that we are not abandoned, nor alone. At least that’s the way I see it. Thanks be to God!