Sunday, November 14th, 2021 – Children’s Sunday
Philip’s Reflection: “Running Away from God”
After two rather solemn Sunday services – All Saints’ Day and Remembrance Sunday –
you’ve probably noticed a bit of a change of pace today! And that’s intentional, because
today is designated within the United Church calendar as “Children’s Sunday” – an
opportunity to lift up the needs, and to celebrate the gifts, of young people in our
community and around the world. So this is why we’ve selected some favourite
children’s hymns and songs, said prayers that in some cases have been written by
children, and why – for the first time in over 18 months - we’ve had a time of storytelling,
for the children who are able to join us this morning.
Not just for children of course because many of these hymns and songs and prayers
have a timeless quality to them – we’ve sung and heard them as children and they raise
our spirits today just as they did then. So with apologies to St. David’s children and
young people, we’ve broadened the understanding of “Children’s Sunday”, to include
the “young at heart” and I hope that includes most of you gathered here this morning!
One of the things we learn in school, at whatever stage of our lives, is that stories can
be understood at a number of different levels and this is just as true for children’s stories
as it is for ancient scripture. We think of all the different meanings that have been read
into Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien or Lord of the Flies by William Golding or,
another bunny story, the children’s classic “Watership Down” by Richard Adams.
And the same is true for the children’s favourite we read earlier today – “The Runaway
Bunny” by Margaret Wise Brown, first published in 1942. At one level, you’ll agree, it’s
simply a heart-warming story about a little bunny who wanted to run away. No matter
how or where he would go, his mother was always there – “If you run away” said his
mother, “I’ll run after you. For you are my little bunny” – whether in a trout stream, up a
mountain, in a crocus garden, or when he becomes a bird or a sailboat or even a little
boy. The mother was always there until eventually the little bunny got tired of running
away: “I might just as well stay where I am and be your little bunny.”
And since it was read in a church setting, we might understand it at another level, and
see theological meaning in the story. We might interpret the mother bunny as God and
perhaps even identify ourselves with the little bunny, always running away, perhaps
even from God. And we read between the lines the reassuring message that whenever
we turn our backs on God; whenever we are distant from God or in a spiritual
wilderness; or so preoccupied with ourselves - a new job, a change in life circumstances
- whatever the situation, God is always present. It’s not God who is distant but we who
are absent – like the little bunny, it is we who have “run away”; and, yes, we may feel
lost but we will always be found.
And these are the same sentiments expressed by the psalmist that you heard in Psalm
139. “Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence? If I
ascend to heaven, you are there, if I make my bed in Sheol (the place of the dead), you
are there. If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea,
even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast.” Says the
Psalmist, “you are [always] there.” And the Psalmist goes even further than the little
rabbit’s mother – because “even before a word is on my tongue, O Lord, you know it
completely.” “You are acquainted with all my ways.” God knows everything, before, now
and into the future. God does not need to look for us and find us; because God has
already found us and known us.
So far so good, you might think, but then we have this final reading from the Gospel of
Mark and, as so often, Jesus challenges our assumptions. He and the disciples have
just arrived in Capernaum and Jesus hears that, on the way there, the disciples have
been squabbling about who’s the “greatest” among them, and Jesus “sat down”, says
Mark, and what he tells them will turn their understanding of greatness on its head – for
“whoever wants to be first must be last of all, and servant of all” – and then taking a
child in his arms, Jesus says “whoever welcomes one such child welcomes me…and
the one who sent me.” You see, children in those days were the lowest rung on the
social ladder – in fact they didn’t even make it onto the ladder at all, they were below the
bottom rung occupied by the widows, servants, and slaves – and for the disciples
wondering who’s greatest among them, the image of child as leader would have been a
shocking reversal of expectations.
But, only 25 verses later in Mark’s Gospel, it seems clear that they just don’t get it. The
people do – those who’d been following Jesus, wanting to get a glimpse of him, they’re
bringing their children to be blessed by him. But Mark tells us that “the disciples spoke
sternly to them”, they try to prevent the children from being brought to Jesus, and Jesus
is “indignant”, he’s beyond angry, and now he lectures them – “let the little children
come to me; don’t stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God
belongs…whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter
it.” And he takes the children into his arms and blesses them.
And as the disciples surely wondered then, and as we wonder now, what is it about the
kids that entitles them to the kingdom of God but not us, adults, some of whom, like the
disciples, have placed their lives at risk by following Jesus, who’ve given up everything
to try and live by Jesus’ rules. In fact what can Jesus be thinking - the kingdom
belonging to children – and not to us, who’ve sacrificed so much?
For answers, we must be careful not to sentimentalize. Jesus isn’t holding up children
for their innocence or their vulnerability and surely not for their devotion to God at that
age of their lives. The good news is that Jesus does not say that we have to become
children but to receive the kingdom of God as a little child. What are the childlike
qualities that Jesus is referring to? I’ve been thinking about my own little grandchildren
for some answers – our two youngest, Sophie (8 months) and Miles (16 months) –
perhaps the same ages as those brought to Jesus for blessing.
And the first quality, I believe, is their complete dependence – a very young child looks
to their parents for all that they receive – all they receive is pure gift – and so, Jesus
suggests, must be the attitude, the mind and spirit, of one who is to receive the kingdom
of God – the kingdom is not earned or bargained for or even merited. Like a little child, it
is receiving God’s goodness as blessing, unmerited, unearned – to put it another way, it
is an attitude, a feeling of “absolute dependence” (Frederick Schleiermacher).
And the second quality is that of childlike spontaneity – an instinctive, perhaps even an
impulsive, response based upon complete trust. You and I can make life so
complicated, can’t we – and we tend to over-think our relationship with God – because
we want it to appeal not only to our hearts but also to our minds. And we know that in
many areas of our lives, there’s a condition known as “paralysis by over-analysis”.
And it’s true about faith too – it’s not a calculation, the kingdom of God won’t be found in
theology books or even, perhaps in Bible Study. I believe Jesus is telling the disciples
that to receive the kingdom of God, to know God’s presence, they (we) must trust, just
like the little child trusts, instinctively, and we must receive the kingdom with the
spontaneity of a little child, quite literally in a leap of faith.
So, first of all, this “Children’s Sunday”, we celebrate all children and young people,
particularly in such challenging times as these; and we pray for children throughout the
world, particularly those caught up in conflict or famine or any form of suffering or
exploitation. And we say to them, as the Psalmist says, know that God is always with
you, God knows you by name and God will never abandon you. Like the mother bunny
perhaps, God will always be there, for you belong to God. And Jesus tells all of us,
young people and adults, that to experience God’s presence, to receive the kingdom of
God, we must rediscover our sense of dependence, our complete dependence on God,
and the spontaneity in trust, that we showed as little children. Why? “For (says Jesus) it
is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs.” So, may all of us “receive the
kingdom of God as a little child”, this morning, this week and for ever more.
November 14th, 2021