Sunday, October 3rd, 2021 – 19th Sunday After Pentecost
Philip’s Reflection: “United in Love and Diversity”
For all of us, the first National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, this past Thursday, was
a day for deep personal reflection. Like many of you, my wife Maggie and I are
European settlers. With our three young children, we arrived in Toronto in 1988 from
London, England, thinking it would be a three-year assignment, an adventure, and
before long we had fallen in love with this country. We started to explore the wide, open
spaces of the Algonquin and the lakes of the Muskoka and on our first family holiday out
West, we dreamed of making our family home in a shining city surrounded by the
mountains, the rivers, the forests and the ocean. We became Canadian citizens in 1991
and a few years later we jumped at the opportunity to live our dream, with an
employment opportunity in Vancouver. Although of course there have been bumps
along the way, a few cul-de-sacs and, by the grace of God, some recent changes in
direction, it has been a dream come true and we feel so blessed. Many of you have told
me that you or your parents or grandparents followed a similar path to West Vancouver.
So, as we gather here today, a few days after the National Truth and Reconciliation
Day, we experience many different emotions – first of all gratitude for the hospitality we
have experienced as guests and settlers in this land. And gratitude this morning for
being back together in person in this, our spiritual home. We are thankful to see friends,
perhaps even old friends, and some new faces; for beautiful music; and familiar
Scripture - evidence that – despite the facemasks and distancing - we have begun to
return to a “new normal” in the life of this beloved community.
But we also come together this morning in humility, with a better appreciation of history
– not only of these long 18 months – of the lives lost or changed forever by a pandemic
that continues to cause suffering and anxiety and grief – but also – highlighted by the
National Day – more fully aware of the shadow side of our history, both as a nation, and
as the Church, and the enormous cost that has been borne, and is still being lived out,
by the first peoples of this land. As settlers, and as the Church, we re-commit ourselves
today to listen to the truth, to stand in solidarity with those still experiencing the
intergenerational trauma of the Residential Schools and associated policies, and we
renew our pledge to support and participate in reconciliation initiatives.
My first act on Thursday was to listen to an interview with Alberta Billy, an elder of the
We Wai Kai Nation on Quadra Island. Now 79 and on oxygen, it was Alberta Billy who in
1981 had stood before the leaders of the United Church, 40 years ago, and asked for
the church to apologize to the Native peoples of Canada for “what you did to them in
residential school”. She was asked in this interview about the significance of this first
National Day for Truth and Reconciliation and she replied “Why did it have to take so
long?” and her question still haunts me. But it was also what she said about dreams that
struck me that morning – how important it had been, throughout her life as an
Indigenous member of the United Church, to “listen to your dreams and to respond to
the dream. For this is one of the ways (said Alberta Billy) in which we communicate with
the Creator”. Listen to your dreams – for God may be talking with you.
And so today, as we gather in person on a Sunday morning for the first time in 18
months, yes, we acknowledge and own the history, but let’s also start with a dream.
What is our dream for St. David’s, what is God communicating to us about the future
purpose for this community? Here is one dream and, as so often in these situations, we
turn to Scripture for interpretation, and this morning we first heard the words that Jesus
says to the disciples in the Upper Room on the night before he was betrayed and then
crucified. And it is the passage in the Gospel of John in which he gives his closest
friends a new commandment – and it is “that you love one another as I have loved
you…. You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit,
fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. I
am giving you these commands (says Jesus) so that you may love one another.”
And in these first months of our time together, I have witnessed this dream being lived
out in this community of friends who love one another. Yes, with two daycares and a
Montessori pre-school, the North Shore Music Academy, the offices of Northshore
Meals on Wheels, a Karate school and other community tenants – we might wonder at
times if St. David’s has become a community centre rather than a place of worship –
and we thank God that during pandemic times our facilities have provided a continued
and valuable source of income – but, if so, it is a community centre with a difference –
St. David’s is a community that was founded, and has thrived for over 63 years, on love
– love and care for each other, love of neighbor through service and outreach, and – in
music and worship and the teaching of sacred scripture – the love of God. And despite
the familiar challenges of changing demographics, aging and, perhaps a few self inflicted wounds, here we are again – and what draws us to this place this morning is
that we are a community of friends who love each other, warts and all, and we too feel
loved. With apologies to the Beatles – St. David’s might have asked in 1957 “Will you
still need me, will you still feed me, when I’m 64?” And today we can say a resounding
“Yes we will.”
Paul’s Letter to the Corinthian Church offers us a second way of envisioning a dream for
St. David’s. It is the familiar metaphor of a Church of many members, literally many
parts, interconnected, that together form one body – the Body of Christ – Jews or
Greeks, slaves or free – and we might add Settlers or Indigenous, Chinese, or Iranian or
Korean or European. For as a Christian community that seeks to follow in the way of
Jesus, we all (as Paul says) “drink of one Spirit”, the same water, the same promise. It
is a dream of doors opened wide for all who wish to enter, doors that open into a
diverse community that loves each other for who we are, as children of God, rather than
what we have been, what we may represent, or even what we might become.
It is a dream that is beautifully represented by the image on the front of your bulletins –
used by kind permission of the artist Jan Richardson – entitled “The Best Supper”. It is
an image that celebrates diversity – not as a problem to be avoided or even to be
solved – but, in all its richness, as a gift of God to be embraced. It is, pictured here, holy
diversity, gathered around a table to share the bread and wine. And we also note in
Paul’s letter that “God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as [God]
chose” - and here we see them arranged in a circle, where each member can be seen
and heard, and all share equally in the “one Bread, one Body”.
It is why we want to place renewed emphasis in the months ahead on what we call
“intercultural ministry”. As we have seen this morning, we are so blessed by the
presence here of multiple cultures and ethnicities, thoughtful and generous people, who
make such an important difference to the life of this community. Intercultural ministry is
the mission of widening the circle still further: it is a ministry that is committed to
diversity, that reminds us that we have as much to learn from those with different
cultural or faith backgrounds as we have to share; and it recognizes, that we clarify and
deepen the understanding of our own faith, through dialogue and mutual respect and
friendship with those from other faiths or cultural backgrounds. So, as the church sign
says on Taylor Way we invite all people of goodwill to “come and see”, to experience
the love of God, and to see themselves and the world through a new lens.
Paul’s letter to the Corinthians not only draws attention to the diversity of its many
members; but it also calls for unity, in the one body. Unity doesn’t mean uniformity and,
as the Corinthian church showed, diversity can sometimes lead to disagreement or
disappointment or even division. As a denomination, the United Church of Canada has
had its fair share of disagreements over the years so too has St. David’s. However, in
these early days of a new ministry it has become clear that adversity, particularly the
challenges of the past 18 months, has brought us closer together, has emphasized that
what joins us together in one body, in love and diversity, is much greater than the issues
that may have divided us in the past; and that today we are united as a community that
is determined to “stay and grow”, in both breadth and depth. We dream, therefore, of a
community that is united in its love of God, love of neighbor and love and care for one
another; and united in one body of many different members, that reflect the diversity of
the wider community we serve.
Alberta Billy tells us to listen to our dreams for it is the way in which the Creator
communicates with us. The dream I have described for St. David’s is of a community
that is “United in Love and Diversity” – it is, I believe, a compelling vision and, as we
look to the future - yes of course sensitive to history, and paying attention to the present
context - we hear God calling each one of us to make this dream a living reality. May it
be so!
October 3rd, 2021