March March 14, 2021 - John 3:16 - Rev. Dal McCrindle
This past week, I was watching a sports game on YouTube and there, in the crowd was someone holding a sign up for the cameras. “3:16” How many of you are sick and tired of seeing the caption “John 3:16” scrawled on a piece of cardboard and held up at sporting, cultural and entertainment events?
We see or hear John 3:16 so much that it has taken on the character of background noise! Seldom do we pay attention to it or we dismiss is as something many fundamentalists like to memorize and jam into our face. For some, it has become the quote of choice when there’s nothing else to say in a heated theological debate. For others, it has become a signpost of something, maybe a salvation catch word. I’m never certain whether the intent of thrusting John 3:16 into our faces is supposed to encourage us or scare us. Although, I do believe that it contains the fundamental truth of our faith, but too often we ignore it because of its off-handed and frequent use.
Once I saw a bumper sticker that stated: “Read the Bible, it’ll scare the hell out of you!” But we don’t’ need the Bible to be scared. Many of us are scared to death, much of the time; scare of relationships, illness, unemployment; scare of people who are different from us; sacred of contentious or divisive issues – some of us are just scared of getting involved in anything which might be controversial, threatening or risky. In other generations, preachers didn’t feel they had really reached their listeners unless the congregation was shaking, fearing for their lives; at least wondering whether they were beyond redemption, without hope. Then, just before they were about to leave, the preacher would remind them that God was merciful and offers forgiveness for the lost. An altar call would follow, where people could respond to the offer of salvation and be saved.
What a waste! We don’t need convincing and while we may not be scare to death, we are easily overcome with thoughts of our own failures and inadequacies.
Usually a major theme during Lent is one of repentance. Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand. The theme of judgment and repentance is usually emphasized and exaggerated during Lent in churches, by changing the liturgical hangings to a more somber colour, dark purple. Some traditions forbid or discourage weddings and/or holding festive events during these weeks. Even though we’ve not had such events for a year! In other traditions, singing of the Gloria following the assurance of pardon is curtailed so that the hallelujahs of Easter might appear more dramatic. Many people will choose to give up some “earthly pleasure” as a reminder of their need to change and repent before it is too late!
Lent can provide an opportunity for a yearly introspection but it is surely a time to do more than simply bemoan our sinful nature. Over the centuries, the annual cycle of being scared to death and finding fault with one another caught on in the Christian tradition. It was easy to find Biblical quotations that reinforced an oppressive outlook on life. Songs of Lament, stories of tragedy, seasons of despair, judgment, destruction and death, all helped to fortify a good Biblical scare, but surely, the Biblical witness is broader than that?
Our story from Numbers reminds us that the Hebrew people were “in the wilderness.” It is a rough place in the wilderness; hard to find food, water, shelter from the sun and the wind, protection from insects, snakes and lizards. Their hardships were great and in a simplistic theology, they complained that God had brought all these forces against them; so rightly they protested to Moses and to God.
Somehow, they were saved from the judgment and the punishment which they felt through the raising up of a bronze serpent on a stick. Judgment they believed came from God, but so did their deliverance.
In Paul’s letter to the church at Ephesus, he speaks about the compassion and mercy of God. “There is judgment but there is always mercy. At one time you were spiritually dead,” he says, “but while you were dead, God brought us to life, with Christ. It is by God’s grace that we have been saved. It is not by our own efforts, but by God’s gift.” That’s the message of Lent; God’s undeserving gift.
Many songs speak about love. “I love you because your eyes are blue, your heart is true, because you were there when I needed you, because…” Well, you know the kind of music I mean.
People who love someone are usually eager to offer reasons for that love, reasons that make love’s declaration believable. Who has not asked the question or at least wondered: why do you love me? Ask that Question of God and the answer is simple: because God made us! God doesn’t love us because we are good, faithful or kind, nor because of our virtue or wonderfully coloured eyes; far from it. It seems that God loves; that’s what God does. That’s God’s job – love: without motive, without discrimination; it’s amazing and almost impossible to believe.
It’s really hard to accept. Since our earliest recollections, we humans have learned to work at being loved. We put our best efforts into becoming kind, successful, beautiful and good; whatever we believe, as being the reason for being loved. To be loved without reason seems to nullify all our hard work. What use is it to try and become lovable in God’s eyes, if God is willing to love the sinner as dearly as the saint?
Believers have long struggled with that question. Some developed a theory that you could earn salvation through virtuous decisions and actions. Theologians have as many theories as there are theologians. Some have suggested that we can make ourselves worthy of God’s love. Others, that we could never deserve God’s love for we are worthless; and therefore, the targets of God’s anger which has somehow been appeased through Jesus’ crucifixion. (He paid what we owed God for our miserable efforts at life.) But the gospel challenges all of these deceptions. It states that God so loved the world that God sent Jesus, God’s gift. And a very good example of God’s love is told in Jesus’ parable of the Prodigal Son. (Like a loving parent, God, sees us a long way off and runs out like a fool to great us and welcome us home; treating us in a very special ways, even when we have failed.)
We are judged, true enough, but most importantly, we are loved. Centuries ago, Augustine suggested that by loving us, God has made us lovable. Children grow up into loving and lovable persons, because their lives have been cradled in tenderness and acceptance. When all a child experiences is hatred, abuse and rejection, chances of growing up into healthy well balanced and caring individuals is somewhat diminished.
Parents who love their children will do almost anything for them, including trying to prevent them from hurting themselves or straying into dangerous and tempting places where their lives and future could be threatened. Parents set limits and standards, not as punishment or judgment but as protection and guidance. Similarly, like a mother or father, God loves the world. We can accept God’s love or reject it but the love of God is given just the same. By embracing the tenderness which God shows, like children we can grow in our loving, just as God hopes we will. And just in case we forget God’s love, God sent Jesus as a sign, a model so that we might remember; and by raising Jesus from death, we can know that any burden, any fear, any doubt, anything can be lifted up by God who loves us in spite of everything else. All we need to say is yes!
This is the word of the Lent ..this is what John 3:16 symbolizes … this is our hope and our gift. At least that’s the way I see it!