Sunday, September 11th, 2022 – Homecoming Sunday
Philip’s Reflection: “The Ties that Bind Us” (Voices United 602)
In 1765, just over 250 years ago, a young Baptist pastor named John Fawcett and his
wife moved to the small village of Wainsgate in Yorkshire, in northern England. It was a
tough assignment for the Fawcetts, with small children, and the few dozen parishioners
could only provide a meagre stipend of around $200/year in today’s terms [don’t tell that
to the St. David’s M&P Committee]. Despite the challenges, John Fawcett quickly
established himself as a caring and thoughtful pastor and before long his inspiring,
evangelical preaching caught the attention of the higher-ups in the Baptist Church of
those days, and in 1772, aged 32, and seven years after arriving in Wainsgate, John
Fawcett was invited to interview, and was then called, to the much larger and more
influential pulpit of Carter’s Lane Baptist Church in London; John accepted the call.
Some weeks later, the goodbyes had been said, a farewell sermon had been preached,
and it was now moving day: John and his wife and children had packed up their few
possessions and were sitting on their cases waiting for the wagon that would take them
on the long journey south to London. And we read that, while sitting and waiting, they
were joined by the men, women and children of the parish, weeping, imploring their
beloved pastor not to leave them. We can only imagine the emotions felt by Pastor John
that morning, surrounded by his tearful parishioners, the memories of funerals he’d led,
the joyful baptisms, the love of God that he had brought to this little rural community,
and the love that he and his young family had received. But surely he was right to
advance his career in the Baptist church, which would also lift his family out of poverty?
The wagon came and their children and their few possessions were lifted in. And we’re
told that, with the wagons now loaded, the distraught Mrs. Fawcett turned to her
husband John and told him “I can’t bear to leave. How can we go?” and, without
hesitation, Pastor John confessed to her that he felt exactly the same; and he ordered
the wagon to be unloaded and the bags carried back inside. And for the next 45 years
the Fawcetts stayed with the people of Wainsgate. Dr. Fawcett became known as an
outstanding preacher and theologian and of course a much-loved pastor. It was in that
same year, 1772, 250 years ago this year, that John Fawcett composed his best-known
hymn – “Blest Be the Tie That Binds” – describing the bonds that had tied him and his
wife to a lifetime of service among the parishioners of Wainsgate.
I selected this little hymn for us to sing today because it tells us something about the
ties that also bind us together here at St. David’s – and it is why each year we celebrate
this Sunday of “Homecoming”, at the end of the summer and the start of a new season
in the church, a “Welcome Back”, a “Coming Home”, to worship in this beautiful
sanctuary, among friends and neighbours. What is the tie that binds us, that brings us
home each week, or less frequently, for Christmas Eve or Easter Sunday services, or
for the key rites of passage – baptisms, weddings, funerals?
Listen to John Fawcett, and the words we’ve just sung – “Blest be the tie that binds our
heart in Christian love, the unity of heart and mind” – in other words, one of the ties that
bind us here, perhaps the tie, is one of Christian love – it’s what makes us different as a
community of faith from a community centre – for as Jesus said to the disciples in
commanding them to love one another – “By this [says Jesus] everyone will know that
you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (Jn 13:35). The “Christian love”
that binds us is more than close friendships, important though they are – Jesus calls it a
love that involves “laying down one’s life for others” – of which Jesus was the supreme
example, of letting go of judgment or privilege or prejudice, and accepting each other,
whether known to us or stranger, as a broken but beloved child of God, just as we all
are. It is a love not only of heart or mind but, as we sang, of unity of heart and mind, it is
a love extended to the other with our whole selves.
And, in the second verse of Fawcett’s hymn – we sang that “Before our Maker’s throne,
we pour out our ardent prayers, our fears, our hopes, our aims...our comforts and our
cares.” This home we come to is a house of prayer, a place where we bring before God
all the concerns on our minds – where we open our hearts to God, and to each other,
knowing that it is safe to be vulnerable, and open and honest, even if we know that
“before a word is on my tongue, O Lord, you know it completely” (Ps. 139: 4). We are
bound together in trust, we trust in God, knowing that our prayers are heard by God,
“that thy will be done”, even if God’s ways or reasons are beyond our knowledge or
understanding; and we trust each other, just as we also “care and comfort” each other.
And finally, on a day such as today, when conflicting feelings of shock and loss and
sadness compete for our emotional attention with the hopes and excitement of a new
school term, or the joy of seeing old friends again, or the celebration of the gifts of
grandparenthood, we share, we share meaningfully and with empathy – for as we sang
– “we share each other’s woes, each other’s burdens bear, and often for each other
flows the sympathizing tear.” Jesus tells us - “Come to me, all you who are weary and
are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn
from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” (Matt
11:28-29). Come to me, says Jesus, and I will give you rest. And we too, who seek to
be “the hands and feet of Christ” in the world, are called to be “gentle and humble in
heart”. It is another defining “tie” of Christian community – gentleness and humility – and
I witness it each day that I among you at St. David’s; and I suspect it is what endeared
John Fawcett to his little Baptist congregation. And it can be for us too.
Friends, there is much on all our minds this Sunday, as there often is these days. But I
invite you to come home, to a home of Christian love, here at Taylor Way and the
Highway – love of God and love of each other, where we bring comfort and care for
ourselves, our neighbours and for God’s world; where we bring our prayers before God,
our hopes and our fears; and where we trust in God, and in each other, as we share our
sadness, and our joys, and we open ourselves to others with a gentle and humble heart.
This is a home like no other we experience in our lives; where we are bound together in
God’s love; and this is why we celebrate “homecoming” each year and, by the grace of
God, why we sing “Blest be the Tie that Binds Us”. Welcome home!
Thanks be to God!